by admin | Apr 7, 2022 | Simple Self Help
Allowing love into your life is where so much of your happiness and fulfilment comes from. Not just romantic love, but platonic love, supporting love, and the gentle, caring love that finds expression in friendship.
For love to flourish it needs to be made welcome, to have a place set for it or for it to be able to arrive without notice and make it's presence felt around you. Key to it's arrival is the space for it to flourish and to be able to flow.
Be open to receiving, to accepting and embracing the arrival of love as well as the feelings and emotions that accompany it. If you fight against it, ask yourself why are you so reluctant to receive? If you close its point of arrival, what are you attempting to achieve in doing so?
Do you want to feel the warmth of love in your day, in your life? Then do those things necessary to allow it in, and as much as anything stop doing those things which prevent it from being present.
So clear up the clutter that is blocking your life and causing so much personal and emotional stagnation. Put events in your calendar that bring you pleasure and enjoyment, as well as allowing you to get out and about and mixing with others of like persuasion.
Be open to the arrival of happiness, of joy and feelings of satisfaction and well-being.
To stop these would be to limit your own experience of an abundant Universe and of a world that wants the best for you. Let the love in.
by admin | Apr 1, 2022 | Simple Self Help
Supportive. Nurturing. Trusting. Inspiring. Loving. Encouraging. Affirming.
These are just a few words that might reflect some of the better relationships you have, yet very different from the words you might use to describe those relationships that are leading you in another direction or no direction at all.
Leaving and letting go of relationships that are hurtful, abusive, painful and which contribute nothing to you is a far more difficult process than we might first imagine. Why would we allow ourselves to do anything that is hurtful to us, or allow any one else to impose these negatives? There is no short answer to this.
To even begin to acknowledge to yourself that you are in a primary relationship that is at least difficult and at worst threatening to your well being is a brave first step, yet it is a first step. Without the recognition of the facts of what is going on around you it is very difficult to then take any action away from what is not working for you in this moment.
Believing in yourself is a strong beginning. This may take time for you to realise as being true, especially if you have let yourself be walked upon, or stepped over or you have given away your self-esteem in the process of loving someone. Considering yourself and your well-being as sufficiently important and precious as to be looked after, this is a significant step in the right direction.
Where you see an experience of a good relationship, of caring, of friendship, expand this by spending more time on it and by placing more focus on the good that is already there. This will allow for the spread of that which already is present in your life into more of the same.
In the observation of good friends, the noticing of kindness, the allowing of patience or courage or nurture, let yourself see the display of these qualities and bring them further into yourself and your own daily experience. The more you can encourage this to happen, the less space there is for those actions and behaviors which are in the negative.
Begin to attract to you more of that which you desire to experience. Do this simply and calmly by requesting such to occur in your daily being.
You will begin to see the changes as soon as you request what you want. So ask for this to be here and now for you.
