Love can take you unawares and sometimes at the very moment that you imagine it will never happen! Love is a wonderful tease when she wants to be and will make your heart race when you would expect it to be steady, or to leap when you thought it would simply stroll!
The best way to attract anything is actually just to be you, to do what pleasures, supports, strengthens and satisfies you. Too many opinions tell us that you want to be a certain way, or follow a trend or a fashion. Since when was it right to be something and someone you are not? No. Stick with being the amazing, wonderful, special person that is you and see what you attract.
Look at what makes you the person who is you. Consider the interests, the passions, the hobbies and the pastimes that give you joy and satisfaction. Are you working in the role that is right for you and realizing the chance to share yourself with the world in a way that reflects your own skills and interests? If someone who did not know you, and who had never met you, were to turn up at your home and look around the space that is yours, what would they see that is an image of you living the life that is meant to be yours? Would they discover a person who is engaged in fulfilling activity and spending their hours in activities that are truly them? Or would they see a sort of "One day I'll do this or do that. Perhaps I might someday follow my heart and do what really motivates and thrills me. But not right now, maybe when the timing is right."
Go through the rooms of your home and look at the clutter and junk that might be preventing life from jumping right in. How much unnecessary 'stuff' have you been hoarding and hanging onto in case it does eventually come back into fashion or have a purpose? Spring clean your house even if it is the middle of winter. Get rid of the things that bring neither function nor beauty of form into your living space.
You will draw to you people and experiences that are in harmony with the message that you are sending out from the core of your being. So it is with love. Your own attractor factor is the measure of the energy level that is about you. Work on enhancing your energy because that is what you want to do or because it simply feels right to do, and not for some exterior prompting or suggestion.
Don't wait in for love to come calling. Instead fill your days with activities that fulfill you and by being around people who make your spirit soar.
Love and spirited friendship will knock on your door and ask to be let in because you are open to this delicious opportunity yourself.